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Seize the day and throttle it!

Carpe diem. That’s the short, latin version. I like the american version by Bill Watterson, too.

Calvin: ‘My elbows are grass-stained, I’ve got sticks in my hair, I’m
covered with bug bites and cuts and scratches…
I’ve got sand in my socks and leaves in my shirt. My hands are
sticky with sap, and my shoes are soaked! I’m hot, dirty, sweaty,
itchy and tired.’

Hobbes: ‘I say consider this day seized!’

Calvin: ‘Tomorrow we’ll seize the day and throttle it!’

Well, my day was not precisely throttled. I’m sorry to say I spend it feeling unwell, physically, and very reflective, mentally (not so sorry about that part). Reading back on old writing, some dating back to 1995, always reminds me of how foolish a creature the human is … or if nothing of so broad a scope, how foolish I am, particularly. On the bad days, this gets me down. On the good days, I revel in it. After all, the implication of looking back on your life and not feeling foolish is that you have not grown, not changed, and can’t blush at your own naivety because you have not yet realized and overcome it. This victory, of course, only heralds in new battles, more naivety … of a heightened kind, maybe so and maybe not, but new. Every day IS a new day, and we awaken as new people not only every morning, but every hour and every minute. What I am now is not what I was even 30 seconds ago, where I was only beginning to formulate a thought that the present me has already had and the future me will one day have long since forgotten.

Today, I work in a library, and it is, in many ways, a standard 9-5 type of job. Tomorrow I may be in my car driving to New York to make my living as a street poet. That there is only a tiny fraction of a percent of a whisper of a chance that that might in fact come to pass does not really lessen the idea as a possibility.

And the point is, we have choices. Not just little choices like: “What tie shall I wear today?”, or “What shall I have for dinner this evening?”. And not only big choices like, “What will I do for a living?” or “Should I ask her to marry me?” In every second of every day there are a million (literally) and more choices waiting to be made, turned down, ignored, hesitated upon, and overlooked. Every positive choice I make is a million negative choices at the same time. That I choose to type this also means I’m choosing not to get a drink of water, not to write something else, not to watch TV or read a book, get more firewood, build a swimming pool, go for a walk, move to New York, call a friend, learn to speak Polish, buy a gun, kill someone, overthrow the political system, streak the town or go out dancing. If you think about it, the amount of “no” you say everytime you say “yes” is staggering.

The point of all this is that maybe some of the “no” should become “yes”. I think a lot of people make decisions because they don’t realize that there are other, valid choices out there. I feel secure in my choices because I am willing to recognize the other possibilities. I am happy doing what I do because I choose to do it, out of a million other things I could be doing. Most of the time, saying “no” to a choice is subconscious, an automatic response that accompanies saying “yes” to another choice you may have grown so accustomed to making that you have, in your own mind, raised it from beyond being a choice to now just being “how things are”.

“How things are” is a lie. It’s a comfort we want to use because we are afraid, as Mandela says, not of our weakness but of our great strength. It’s not scary to have no choices. What’s frightening is having countless choices. Each of us is nothing less than a god, with complete dominion over the most essential: ourselves.

You are responsible for every minute detail of your life. You can change, and you can stay the same, and either involves making one or numerous choices. There is ABSOLUTELY no such thing as being powerless, especially not concerning who you are.

In twenty years, I’ll look back on writing this, and I’ll surely feel foolish for sounding like a damned fortune cookie. But I chose to write this, instead of a million other things I could have done, and I’ll not regret that.

“Action is choice; choice is free commitment to this or that way of behaving, living, and so on; the possibilities are never fewer than two: to do or not to do; be or not be.” -Isaiah Berlin, From Hope and Fear Set Free

In the end, all it is: carpe diem.

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The last leaf

I’m looking for the time when it won’t be a struggle to write here every day. To say I don’t have time to write makes me feel weak. I do!

And then there are days like today, when nothing in my head comes forward for me to write. I’m no good at reaching back in there and grabbing things. So I submit something previously written, in hope that the simple act of writing, anything, each day will urge my bring to bring its inane thoughts to the forefront.

Dawn’s disgrace is ending.
I would give anything for a Sun that would rise and not stop,
for proof that everthing is not over,
for the last leaf to fall.

What’s unwritten is that beauty relies on ending, as much as on beginnings. It relies on sorrow as much as joy, pain as much as health – and this is true of all things. There is no blue without red, and rainbows are not beautiful because of their uniformity. And yet, each day our society tries to remove another color, to make us uniform, to fight against that which they are not, because they are good and so everything else must be bad, because they are right and so everything else must be wrong.

Maybe the biggest problem is that, in large part, we live in a world where we can’t agree to disagree.

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There is no moral

Thinking about France again and the long journey over the sea.

Thinking about that cafe in Paris’ Red Light, drawing in my journal while the rain thrum-thrum-thrummed the rooftops. I never was an artist ’til Paris.

Even though the goats gruff thought they would be happier on the other side of the bridge, they too had their fears. The troll is their anxiety, their doubts trying to keep them from moving past the wall of the “city”. Marianne spoke often of the outsiders, the rebels. She spoke of the rebel in each of us, and of transformations, and journeys. That’s what those goats went to become, rebels on the other side of the fence. They defeated their troll as if it were the only troll in the world, and the story goes that the grass really WAS greener over there, and it would lead you to believe that that’s where they stayed the rest of their days, content to chew the verdage.

But once you’ve defeated a troll, conquered your fears and gone past your limits, just once! Once you’ve become an outsider, you can never go back. Stepping outside the walls, they begin to expand. If you don’t keep moving “out”, soon you’ll find the walls have enclosed you in their warm embrace again … warm like a stagnant pool in the summer, like a fake smile, like the tourist season.

Paris was way beyond my boundaries. It was the island around which walls could not be built. It was a continuous call for “la revolution!” and a conflagration demanding the candle be burned from both ends.

After France, even the US was strange, outside comfort. And so, one of the best summers I ever spent, an outsider in a world I knew well, an observer distant from my surroundings. Myself, surrounded by France, still lingering on a balcony over La Place de la Baleine watching the american tourists below that had brought their comfort with them.

Being an outsider is not just where you go, it’s how you go and what you take with you for the journey. Those tourists were never outsiders … their normalcy never became an object for their own rebellious contempt. And then, maybe I wasn’t, either. But I learned one thing. One thing at least. Being an outsider doesn’t make you happy. Those who have been outsiders, and have since gone back to ways of comfort, their memories of being outsiders may bring them happiness. Those who stay outside, those terminal rebels … I think they rarely find happiness.

I guess that in this story, there is no moral.

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A desire for poetry

Another busy and weary Sunday.

I’m never sure if working with people makes me more positively or negatively disposed towards humanity. I certainly see both the best and the worst, even in a library.

Why do people give in so easily to despair? Is it simply a desire for poetry, and for us, is poetry so bleak? Happiness is not a place, nor a job, nor your daily habits nor your monitary worth nor your religion nor your popularity nor your “strangeness” or “ordinariness”. Happiness is nothing but a choice to be happy, in any condition. We trick ourselves into thinking that forces play upon our joy, suppress it or deny it. But we’re all just swinging in our own cages.

I think that maybe, in a world like today, being happy almost makes us feel foolish. As if we know there’s a black cloud hanging over our heads, a hole larger than Europe in the ozone layer, a crazy dictator in power, starvation and disease running rampant the world round, nuclear destruction seems impossible to avoid at some juncture, melting icecaps … WHAT RIGHT HAVE WE TO BE HAPPY!?!

Sisyphus didn’t think on these things. He rolled a boulder up a mountain. When it reached the top, it rolled down the other side … his work to begin again. Must we imagine him happy, too? I’ve felt his happiness, and my failure is that I can’t explain it. If asked, I’ll say “Read Camus”… and that too’s a failure. Read “The Little Prince” and read “The Alchemist” and read Russian literature and French literature and American literature …. they’ve all felt like Sisyphus at times.

And to the illiterate — I guess that to them, I have nothing to say.